Friday, August 31, 2012

Beloved to be in Love


Beloved to be in love, what could it possibly mean? No one really knows, suppose you precisely feel it. Comfort ability, Encouragement, Honesty, and communication are things I believe are most important keys to a healthy relationship. Though being too comfortable could be a negative matter as well; To the point where you just lack doing anything productive, which could soon lead to no more encouragement, boringness, and where your state of bliss does a one eighty and causes resentment. No one wants to down their kudos in a relationship by simply not getting “pretty” for you man, or merely just not taking care of yourself in a sense. Women should never stop trying and keep things fresh (Men do consider us thee “emotional” ones) Once we become distressed it causes that vibe along with an unpredictable attitude, that obviously they just don’t “dig”. Keep your cool, with confidence and go with the flow. True love is a discipline that only you can choose to fulfill.
One to lay down sacrifices has their pros and cons. How much would you give or give up too keep
one in the right state of mind? Is it healthy, or absurd? First off it shouldn’t be too difficult, but yes there do come times for discussion and decisions that both should be capable of handling it with patience, and understanding. For some it may be difficult. Starting off the relationship with full trust, no nagging, generous with their “space”, Will keep you around longer where they eventually adore and appreciate you for that. Definitely not smart to render yourself in a relationship to uprightly change a man, they are who they are and you can’t change anybody. Possibly it won’t work out and things might get edgy… it’s time to depart. Caution when you commit your cares too oneself, continuous hesitation too return the favor could be a sign that he’s just not interested, for another situation; just not ready. There’s a reason for everything though, if things don’t go take another route. Take heed when you’re being spoken too, including eye contact and vulnerability. They appreciate being listened to; all we want is for them to be the man. “Life’s a journey, not a destination.”
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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Rubberband Back Too You.

 
She would say “it’s the smell of his hair, the strength in his back; each moment he appears from this light that keeps me running.” Disposable you may refer to some, but this one; definitely not.  Most would call him charming, contrary to those who think of it as deceitful. Aware of the spark she knew her heart had this intense pressure, and passion. As in, this could be it. Perhaps soon enough she’d be capable of raining her feelings towards him without it coming off with an antic disposition or promiscuous action. With that said, she kept asking herself “When will my time come?” Sat, waiting patiently, in silence. They say “The humble keep quiet” I boggle over the thought of it. So many words to be said and not enough time in day. It’s unbelievable how frantic some individuals get and in order to keep composure, then again; must stay emotionless silent.
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During her time of waiting, she would dread the fact that she would have to be assured by him constantly; for one to know he’s interested. All day long she showers him with love and kindness, and as much understanding possible. Should she not expect too much from a man? Offhanded he seems to be when she tries to accommodate and be that optimism in his life. Up and down he swears that it’s not her, merely she has gone mad. Would he also bring a conspiracy in some shape and form that would cause an outrageous break that neither would want to run into? Should you stay or should you go. Skipping down the windy road with an artificial grin, resulting in his game of cat and mouse, and to deny you disagree is just disrespecting your morals and standards of who your character truly is. When will the time come where enough is enough?
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Like a magnet Point A always ends up back with Point B, even when pulled away for distance. For a heart, shouldn’t it grow fonder when away? She had a difficult time keeping her distance for all the love in her heart for him; although for him to notice, it’s probably the best resolution too just walk away for a while. Do what makes you happy and watch others observe the happiness and light instilled with you.
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Still I wait patiently and waiting. Hoping that the best is yet to come, and the wait shall be worth the while. Giving all of me, presenting him what I could be for him. Nevertheless, one day it will be noticed, all things come in time during the seasons of bliss.
And for the fairy tell happy ending, it is still yet to come.
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